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Mary M. Bastedo

June 19, 2020


Mary Monica Sillup Bastedo, 72, of Barnegat, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Friday, June 19, 2020, after a short stay at Southern Ocean Medical Center.  Born in Elizabeth, New Jersey, July 22, 1947, Mary was a lifelong resident of several New Jersey communities.  She graduated from Linden High School in 1965, Trenton State College, Bachelor of Arts, Teacher of Business Education in 1969, Kean University, Master of Arts, Behavioral Sciences, 1999.  Mary was a teacher at Linden High School and an Administrative Assistant for Merck.  Mary retired with her husband (of 49 years) to the Four Seasons at Mirage in Barnegat, New Jersey, where she has been an officer and member of the Women’s Club.  She was a communicate of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Byzantine Catholic Church, Toms River, New Jersey.  She was predeceased by her parents, John A. Sillup, Sr., and Elizabeth Petrin Sillup; her sister, Olga M. McDonough; and her father-in-law, Calvin S. Bastedo, Sr.  Mary is survived by her husband, Calvin S. Bastedo, Jr.; sons, Andrew C. Bastedo and Gregory C. Bastedo; daughters-in-law, Rosario Torres Bastedo and Elizabeth Mull Bastedo; granddaughter, Abigail E. Bastedo; mother-in-law, Maria Urbano Bastedo; brother, John A. Sillup, Jr.; sister-in-law, Joyce Burns Sillup; brother-in-law, Robert McDonough; and several nieces and nephews.

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